tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-93323562024-03-19T08:08:48.961-04:00Wanderings and wonderingsUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger235125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9332356.post-22624391885831933002009-07-24T12:16:00.004-04:002009-07-24T12:33:55.426-04:00To an energetic futureVery encouraged to hear about <a href="http://ge.ecomagination.com/smartgrid/#/landing_page">GE Smart Grid</a>, which uses power data to alter consumer behaviour for their benefit. So, for example, if your power meter clearly indicates you pay more for using the washing machine in the evening, then you can use it in the morning instead and save money. This project is also working on allowing consumers to generate their own electricity from solar panels (for example) and selling it back to the utility company. Though <a href="http://www.businessweek.com/innovate/next/archives/2009/07/ges_smart_home.html">this Business Week article</a> says that it only results in a monthly reduction in expenditure of $2, don't forget to read the comments section where Mark Brian, GE's Home Energy Manager who is featured in the article, clarifies:<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); "></span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); "><blockquote>My overall bill is down almost 20% since I received the smart appliances and started modifying my consumption behavior. The $2.00 savings number quoted above is a comparison to my actual "variable rate" bill, and what my bill would have been if I had paid a flat rate of 6% per kW-hour. What this tells me is that I have successfully avoided the price increase that came with time-of-use pricing. Overall ... my bill is still down 18%-20% on average and I'm successfully bypassing the electricity price increase!</blockquote></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);">On the heels of <a href="http://one-size-fits-one.blogspot.com/2009/06/empowering-in-true-sense-of-term.html">Google Power Meter</a> and what I heard at the <a href="http://conferences.ted.com/TEDGlobal2009/program/guide.php">'Revealing Energy' sessions at TED Global</a> yesterday, I think making energy-saving a commercial business project can really do wonders for our future generations, and I don't mean to sound fluffy when I say that. I'd use GE Smart Grid or Google Power Meter in a snap if they were available to me. I think that apart from making sound financial sense, they'd really contribute to environmental sustainability. Those are only good things, no? And companies like GE and Google are demonstrating that they are outward-looking by investing in these projects. Hats off to them. </span></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9332356.post-59015465710951470602008-03-14T09:45:00.002-05:002008-03-14T09:48:44.963-05:00How to explain THAT to your kids :)In India, it is really tough to explain the whole birds-and-the-bees deal to kids. I don't think I know any parent who's done that without humming and hawing. Heck, there are even parents who don't. MOST parents I know fall in this category and just sort of expect their kids to know from various sources (school? their friends?) when the time comes.<br /><br />Well, <a href="http://www.cite-sciences.fr/english/ala_cite/exhibitions/sex-wot-s-the-big-deal/">check this out</a>. It is one of the most interactive, fun ways I've seen yet to explain love, sex and tell them that the world is going to be one hell of a confusing place in the years to come!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9332356.post-57321571428706887382008-03-11T13:01:00.003-05:002008-03-11T13:05:31.827-05:00Get them some air!<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj4hXU1fOH0bSGEcmgVq_r5LP9UYQFVUc1QydcOJjqrZ4vX678S0ADxjPCT2zDdDPphUiI21Y_w5IQVzX5wGBX5HUWwylw2B6fRCpDWS0SnkbQtN8MXK_yip4keblq4KuPiP_HI/s1600-h/131583-mbair_large.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj4hXU1fOH0bSGEcmgVq_r5LP9UYQFVUc1QydcOJjqrZ4vX678S0ADxjPCT2zDdDPphUiI21Y_w5IQVzX5wGBX5HUWwylw2B6fRCpDWS0SnkbQtN8MXK_yip4keblq4KuPiP_HI/s400/131583-mbair_large.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5176546099317427650" border="0" /></a>If you don't know what this is, then you're not an Apple fan, obviously.<br /><br />Anyway, <a href="http://www.michaelnygard.com/blog/2008/03/steve_jobs_made_me_miss_my_fli.html">this person missed his flight</a> because the airport security officials didn't know what it was, either!!!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9332356.post-65325497978141171842008-03-10T12:28:00.002-05:002008-03-10T12:36:53.775-05:00Guess who prefers ObamaNo, no VVIP or anything. <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xcR6enqJZJ8">This ad</a> run by the Hillary Clinton campaign must be familiar to most people by now, where she suggests that she'd be the best person to answer the phone in the White House when you are sleeping at 3 a.m.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.dailykos.com/story/2008/3/8/03755/44140/948/471959">Turns out</a> that the little girl in that ad is now actually 17 (Getty Images had rights to the footage and it was used by the Clinton campaign), her name is Casey Knowles and yeah - she is <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T0AddSHpNrE">an avid Obama supporter!!!</a>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9332356.post-36846723743481155102008-03-09T15:37:00.003-05:002008-03-09T15:41:49.868-05:00Are you too busy recording, or living?"We talked about a number of other things—I can’t remember what—and he took a few pictures with his phone, which I thought was lame. I mean, if you’re too busy recording the experience, are you actually having it in the first place?"<br /><br />- Hari Kunzru, 'Raj, Bohemian'<br /><br />That's a thought I always have when I see friends of mine take pictures and pictures and pictures at the rate of one every minute almost, when they go out partying. I take pictures too, but not so many, because - and this is why I put in the quote here - if you’re too busy recording the experience, are you actually having it in the first place, as Kunzru says in his <a href="http://www.newyorker.com/fiction/features/2008/03/10/080310fi_fiction_kunzru">great short story that touches on consumerism and the urban socialite's 'hectic' life</a>.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9332356.post-36387873464137954572008-03-09T12:50:00.004-05:002008-03-09T12:53:06.295-05:00Is home where the heart is?!<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiqYCewyp51zzLQ2SQhRUm-TEsDKcll-A69v2pWiQ79rnDw5oc0GdWvxJTj4l8wnb2LWJXHO97SmHHX8Oe_e9r0yQzA6GQslwIqqhpEq7r87Xe_pzOiqN-tgN_420-DGwh1sAc9/s1600-h/ATT00001.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiqYCewyp51zzLQ2SQhRUm-TEsDKcll-A69v2pWiQ79rnDw5oc0GdWvxJTj4l8wnb2LWJXHO97SmHHX8Oe_e9r0yQzA6GQslwIqqhpEq7r87Xe_pzOiqN-tgN_420-DGwh1sAc9/s400/ATT00001.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5175801163009740162" border="0" /></a>Got this from my cousin in an email....with the message 'This bike was parked here in 1985. The owner is still in Saudi Arabia'.<br /><br />And then at the bottom, 'at least visit your native place once a year'!!!!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9332356.post-66002407939882038432008-03-03T16:42:00.000-05:002008-03-03T16:43:19.204-05:00....Sometimes it is just too tiring to be good.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9332356.post-74542100598601439862008-03-02T15:33:00.002-05:002008-03-02T15:36:12.310-05:00Sunday entertainment!To brighten up your Sunday, I hereby present....George W. Bush. LOL!!!!!!!<br /><br /><object width="425" height="355"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/xUKSWswIUO8"></param><param name="wmode" value="transparent"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/xUKSWswIUO8" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" wmode="transparent" width="425" height="355"></embed></object>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9332356.post-9898914493227428502008-02-29T15:30:00.005-05:002008-02-29T15:56:42.050-05:00Clash of the weak-'uns<p class="MsoNormal">I love films, Indian and international. Sure, I’ve been seeing a lot of foreign films lately but that’s only because I think the stories some of these tell are fascinating. Film transcends language, if you ask me. Who can watch <a style="font-style: italic;" href="http://www.sonyclassics.com/thelivesofothers/">The Lives of Others</a>, <a style="font-style: italic;" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0110877/">Il Postino</a> or <a style="font-style: italic;" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0095765/">Cinema Paradiso</a> and NOT be amazed by them?</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p>But I’ve noticed the steady improvement in the caliber of Indian films of late too, so its not like I’m becoming a film snob or anything. Whether it is the quite brilliant (in my opinion anyway) <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0411469/"><span style="font-style: italic;">Hazaaron Khwahishein Aisi</span></a> or the more commercial <a style="font-style: italic;" href="http://www.yashrajfilms.com/microsites/cdi/cdi.html">Chak De India</a> or <a style="font-style: italic;" href="http://taarezameenpar.com/">Taare Zameen Par</a>, Indian cinema is undergoing a renaissance in filmmaking. (As an aside, <span style="font-style: italic;">Chak De India</span> and <span style="font-style: italic;">TZP</span> have brilliant websites, unlike the films of yore). There is a whole range of less commercial or borderline arthouse films coming up quietly in India as well, such as <a style="font-style: italic;" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0920464/">Manorama Six Feet Under</a>, <a style="font-style: italic;" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0995740/">No Smoking</a>, <a style="font-style: italic;" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0824316/">Dor</a>, <a style="font-style: italic;" href="http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/India_Buzz/Back_from_the_US_Via_Darjeeling/articleshow/2550487.cms">Via Darjeeling</a> (a Rashomon-inspired tale that’s been beautifully adapted to a Bengali setting, scheduled for an April release in India) and <a style="font-style: italic;" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1179782/">Mithya</a> – films which are riding the wave of the multiplex experience and allowing so many more people to watch these films, films that are Good with a capital G. Not just your usual rich-girl-meets-poor-boy, who-overcome-opposition-from-family-and-marry-after-at-least-five songs-of-which-two-must-be-performed-around-trees variety. Heck, some of this sensibility is flowing over into the Yash Raj camp as well, so we have them finally venturing into producing a film like <a style="font-style: italic;" href="http://www.yashrajfilms.com/microsites/kabulexpress/microflash.htm">Kabul Express</a>, which was, <a href="http://www.yashrajfilms.com/AboutUs/BuisnessActivities.aspx?SectionCode=PRO002#filmprod">in their own words</a>, ‘YRF’s first film for an international audience – a new foray into this segment of filmmaking, with many more to come’. </p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p>Amidst all this, we have a film like <a style="font-style: italic;" href="http://www.eklavyatheroyalguard.com/">Eklavya-The Royal Guard</a> being the Indian nomination for the Oscars. For all those of you who watch any half-decent non-Indian film on a reasonably regular basis, and those of you who keep track of the Oscar nominations, I have a question: which brainless, money-sucking idiot thought from any angle that a film like that could even cast a shadow on films like the eventual winner, Austria’s <a style="font-style: italic;" href="http://www.sonyclassics.com/thecounterfeiters/">The Counterfeiters</a>? I highly suspect that the Film Federation of India’s committee must:<o:p><br /></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="">a)<span style=""> </span></span><!--[endif]-->not even be interested in films as a hobby, forget as a job </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="">b)<span style=""> </span></span><!--[endif]-->be VERY susceptible to corruption and consequently, a rich production house’s dream: you pay, you get nominated – which is tragic for those independent production houses that make honest, good films but don’t have a strong enough financial backing </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="">c)<span style=""> </span></span><!--[endif]-->not even really care about this whole issue</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p>I was going through the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_India%27s_official_entries_to_the_Oscars">list of films</a> that <st1:country-region><st1:place>India</st1:place></st1:country-region> has nominated to the Oscars since 1956. We started out pretty well: <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0050188/"><span style="font-style: italic;">Mother India</span></a>, <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0056436/"><span style="font-style: italic;">Sahib Bibi Aur Ghulam</span></a>, slowly moving to <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0088031/"><span style="font-style: italic;">Saaransh</span></a> in 1984 and <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0102636/"><span style="font-style: italic;">Parinda</span></a> (ironically, by the same director who made <span style="font-style: italic;">Eklavya</span>) in 1989. The 1990’s were not too bad, with the glaring exception of Shankar’s <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0151121/"><span style="font-style: italic;">Jeans</span></a> being nominated in 1998. And then from 2000 we started going downhill, with films like <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0238936/"><span style="font-style: italic;">Devdas</span></a>, <span style="font-style: italic;"><a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0451850/">Paheli</a> </span>and <span style="font-style: italic;">Eklavya</span>, and no nomination in 2003 at all, for whatever political reasons, because I refuse to believe that there were no nomination-worthy films that year. </p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p>Of course, I’m sure it has escaped no one’s observation that the last few nominations have all been coming purely from the commercial Hindi film industry, with the exception of <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0396962/"><span style="font-style: italic;">Shwaas</span></a> in 2004 which was did not have that much of a big budget, and was Marathi to boot. Since the 1950’s up to now, we’ve had only about 10 nominated films that were non-Hindi. Regional films are largely ignored, and more often than not have some gems hidden among them that escape the untrained eye, which is what it looks like the film committee have anyway. <span style=""> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p>So, the questions beg themselves: what are the administrators of the Film Federation of India doing today? What are their priorities? And why has no one made a move on taking them to task? </p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p>I wish someone had an answer. Or are we destined, as often happens in Indian politics, to quietly accept what the people in power do?</p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9332356.post-34882673255706217842008-02-29T13:48:00.002-05:002008-02-29T13:51:30.500-05:00Sour grapesIndian expats in the Gelf (spelling mistake intended) are <a href="http://taazza.com/news/story/budget-ignores-nris-feel-indian-expats-in-uae">complaining that the latest GoI budget is unfair to NRI's. </a><br /><br />I don't know if I'm missing something so help me out here - if they feel so bad about it, shouldn't they quietly go back to India and become RI's instead of sulking?Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9332356.post-60341800540112452292008-02-27T18:22:00.002-05:002008-02-27T18:30:20.346-05:00HopeDespair. Hopeless, merciless despair.<br />Thrashing about the idle mind, as<br />waves wash the shore.<br />Murakami spouting Schumann through Kafka<br />Dahl: Liszt<br />Kiss, kiss.<br /><br />Despair. Unwavering, murderous despair.<br /><br />The sun glints through the windows<br />On a crisp winter's day.<br />If you listen closely, you can hear<br />Hope.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9332356.post-12720795918578297342008-02-24T16:02:00.004-05:002008-02-25T08:37:43.504-05:00Total Time Pass<a href="http://googlefight.com/">This.</a><br /><br />Finally, proof that Aamir Khan is more popular than Shah Rukh, Facebook is more popular than Orkut, Yahoo is more popular than Hotmail, Bill Clinton is more popular than Hillary Clinton, and various other funny comparisons.<br /><br />A superb way to get back at that awful snob in college whom you never really liked. You'll probably wind up being more popular than him/her. Just type in your respective names and see.<br /><br />I did :-DUnknownnoreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9332356.post-80808662243605341072008-02-23T09:37:00.004-05:002008-02-25T08:37:08.408-05:00And my vote goes to...Oscar fever is in the air, and for a change I'm not going to take shots at who is going to win the most talked-about Best Actor, Actress, Film or Director awards. I took the time to listen to all the nominees for Best Song and am safely placing my bets on 'Falling Slowly' from the OST of 'Once'. The other three nominated songs are ALL from 'Enchanted', which I found rather strange. I mean, were there so few original songs this year that 3 nominated songs wound up being from the same film? I don't even think that all three are truly worth being nominated, especially not '<a href="http://youtube.com/watch?v=KObgs81QyR4">A Happy Working Song</a>'. Some of the interludes in <a href="http://youtube.com/watch?v=CB_Qh5TBGoc">'So Close' </a>and '<a href="http://youtube.com/watch?v=xRYU4cqUAUs">That's How You Know</a>' are not bad, and the tunes are reasonably catchy, but Best Song? Not for me, anyway. So without further ado, listen to 'Falling Slowly', performed by <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Glen_Hansard">Glen Hansard</a>, vocalist and guitarist of Irish band The Frames, and <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marketa_Irglova">Marketa Irglova</a>, a Czech songwriter and musician who first met Hansard when he visited her hometown in the Czech Republic. Apart from being lead actor and actress in 'Once', the 38-year-old Hansard and 20-year-old Irglova also briefly dated.<br /><br />The lyrics of the song are equally beautiful.<br /><br />**Update: I forgot to mention <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6R2T6LJvR9I">'Raise it up'</a> from the OST of 'August Rush' which was also nominated, but guess what - my song won!<br /><br /><br /><object height="355" width="425"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/XzQRuTwaFI8&rel=1"><param name="wmode" value="transparent"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/XzQRuTwaFI8&rel=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" wmode="transparent" height="355" width="425"></embed></object>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9332356.post-27003386607089895612008-02-22T10:44:00.003-05:002008-02-22T10:57:00.944-05:00AlizeeDuring a conversation with <a href="http://elvesblog.blogspot.com/">D</a>, I suddenly remembered a really nice French singer whose work she introduced me to a few months ago. I'm linking to the song here so I remember it in the future in case I want to listen to it again (I probably will), though D informs me that engineering students in India (or maybe just Kerala - I don't know!), are very familiar with her work. Pretty young thing, and a lovely voice to boot. Small wonder that these kids know of her, I suppose!<br /><br /><object height="355" width="425"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/mC6wEFZYbpM&rel=1"><param name="wmode" value="transparent"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/mC6wEFZYbpM&rel=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" wmode="transparent" height="355" width="425"></embed></object>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9332356.post-48272304487072639782008-02-21T11:42:00.004-05:002008-02-21T12:29:47.958-05:00What would we do without 'em tags?So, since I am stuck with one foot on a stool, the one thing I do have plenty of at the moment is time. I just realised yesterday that I have been tagged by the increasingly popular <a href="http://bonniebluebutler.blogspot.com/">Smugbug</a>, so I'm going to give this a shot. Smugster, thanks for the opportunity. Haven't read my own archives - well, ever!!!<br /><br />The rules of the tag are: <span style="font-style: italic;">Post 5 links to 5 of your previously written posts. The posts have to relate to the 5 key words given (family, friend, yourself, your love, anything you like). Tag 5 other friends to do this meme. Try to tag at least 2 new acquaintances (if not, your current blog buddies will do) so that you get to know them each a little bit better.</span><br /><br />Here goes....<br /><br />1. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Family: </span>I searched and searched and realized that I just about have the bare minimum number of posts required to be able to tag anything in this category, i.,e, one. <a href="http://wanderstruck.blogspot.com/2005/11/happy-birthday-to-best-sister-in-world.html">This post</a> from three years ago where I wish my sister a happy birthday is the best bet. I also realised as I read it that my sentiments are exactly the same now. The girl is off on a trip with her friends at the moment. We really need to do one of those together.<br /><br />2. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Friend:</span> I suck at this. The fact that I hardly have any posts on my family and my friends must indicate that I am a pretty closed personality, no? Tcheh! And all this time I thought I was not!!! Anyway, <a href="http://wanderstruck.blogspot.com/2006/04/great-indian-wedding.html">this post</a> about a friend's wedding two years ago is suitable, speaking of which I realised that said friend now has a baby! How time flies.<br /><br />3. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Yourself:</span> Most blogs are about their owners, I suppose. I am no different. Just that the realisation that I am an egoistic blogger is not very comforting! Anyway, <a href="http://wanderstruck.blogspot.com/2006/02/happy-to-me-happy-to-me.html">this post</a> from two years ago that has 25 points about me or my thoughts that I wrote on my birthday, is the best contender in this category, and since I let my birthday go unnoticed this year on my blog, I'm going to take this opportunity to add to that list with two more points, so that the total is right for <span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">this</span> year.<br /><br />-------26. Marriage is both wonderfully difficult and wondrously delightful.<br />-------27. They say that by age 30, people should get their act together. I am nowhere close!<br /><br />4. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Your love:</span> Hmmmmmm. I obviously haven't written much about THE love of my life, as some of you should have deduced by now, given my earlier declaration of being a closed personality-type. But <a href="http://wanderstruck.blogspot.com/2005/09/memories-of-rainy-days.html">this post</a> about my love for rainy days, and then the bit in the end, make this a good piece to call up here.<br /><br />5. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Anything you like:</span> <a href="http://wanderstruck.blogspot.com/2007/07/algerian-rock_16.html">This song. </a>Still.<br /><br />People to tag. Let. Me. See. I don't know how many of you will respond, but give it a try, OK, folks - please? It may even be fun! <a href="http://pennylaneinaustralia.blogspot.com/">Penny Lane</a>, <a href="http://www.therestlessquill.blogspot.com/">The Restless Quill</a>, <a href="http://bluelullaby.blogspot.com/">Kaleidoglide</a>, <a href="http://www.grafxgurl2.blogspot.com/">Graphic Designer Nerd</a>, <a href="http://ekbensah.blogspot.com/">Emmanuel</a>.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9332356.post-63636473512228273962008-02-21T07:20:00.002-05:002008-02-21T07:29:21.743-05:00There she goes...<p class="MsoNormal">The other day, (a couple of days ago), I went ice-skating. In five minutes, I was down with a fractured ankle. An ambulance took me to the nearest hospital, x-rays were taken and a splint put on my foot. The net result of all this is that I will probably be out of any noteworthy action for about 6 weeks, but I am sincerely hoping it will be less. I think I’m being a reasonably good patient, apart from momentary lapses into self-pity which are completely unwarranted, because come on, there are millions of people with much bigger problems in life, after all! So I grin and bear it with good grace. The most difficult part so far was sitting on my ‘fanny’ (as the nurse at the hospital called it) and somehow hauling myself upstairs to my 5<sup>th</sup>-floor apartment, one butt and one stair at a time.(No, there is no elevator). Oh, I can be the ‘butt’ of so many jokes now, yeah yeah! </p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p>The good things I am trying to gain from this experience (and it’s only week one) are: </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in;"><o:p> 1. </o:p>Becoming a <a href="http://thinkexist.com/quotation/the_greatest_prayer_is/165541.html">good disciple of Buddha</a>, (or a lesson in patience). I used to be such a ‘come on, let’s do this NOW’ kind of person, and now I am left with no choice but to wait and do things slowly, if I can do them with one leg, or else wait for someone to help me.<br /></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in;">2. <a href="http://hubpages.com/hub/Time_Management_Skill">Mental self-help</a>, (or learning to better manage my time using my head and not a sheet of paper, though I suppose I could use both now that I have the time) - how Stephen. R. Covey-like does THAT sound!</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in;">3. Learning the <a href="http://www.ihop.com/">IHOP </a>menu. Except in my case, it's 'I hop', i.e, the one-legged dance, you know?<o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.25in;"><o:p></o:p>Let’s see what other lessons the next few weeks bring!</p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9332356.post-39771107598910045502008-02-20T06:55:00.009-05:002008-02-20T07:08:37.921-05:00A slice of Europe in South America<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjpEozSwZGNWsP_eCM0goTygvNj0aF9J3LGou99z_iBI3ybC-cuEClnFC4aIBEqtb4IdjjtTV5LUDubqiLFYLKwsgwuQnZHDLt8EHH3NqqiVUbQeyP_AaeFfS52yhv1O2L01Sfw/s1600-h/ba1.JPG"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 167px; height: 122px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjpEozSwZGNWsP_eCM0goTygvNj0aF9J3LGou99z_iBI3ybC-cuEClnFC4aIBEqtb4IdjjtTV5LUDubqiLFYLKwsgwuQnZHDLt8EHH3NqqiVUbQeyP_AaeFfS52yhv1O2L01Sfw/s320/ba1.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5169031445662380450" border="0" /></a>As the plane touched down in <st1:placename st="on">Ministro</st1:placename> <st1:placename st="on">Pistarini</st1:placename> <st1:placename st="on">International</st1:placename> <st1:placetype st="on">Airport</st1:placetype> in <st1:city st="on"><st1:place st="on">Buenos Aires</st1:place></st1:city>, the sun gave me a warm welcome. Landing as I was from the cold climes of a <st1:state st="on"><st1:place st="on">New York</st1:place></st1:state> winter, I felt its rays wrap themselves around my shoulders like a well-worn shawl and invisibly snuggled up to them. The highway leading from the airport to the city centre was wide and lined with rolling hillocks on either side. Against the bright blue of the sun-drenched sky, the greenery reminded me of parts of <st1:place st="on">Europe</st1:place>. That image soon faded without warning and gave way to worn apartment blocks that clustered together and were so reminiscent of Mumbai that I began to wonder what exactly <st1:city st="on"><st1:place st="on">Buenos Aires</st1:place></st1:city> really was about. <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgh4Ni5Zh-5ebhJdi2eCXjNyUTR-Z6ffypbuMyIbPAR6lj1DtplwODYAy36v6Luwyb3tNVWHAJmnqIO05ZNKblHyy9JkecPZIEEWKVOx7Hnm7dSV-jQsz0w79bBEXUJvaMeNk5O/s1600-h/ba2.JPG"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgh4Ni5Zh-5ebhJdi2eCXjNyUTR-Z6ffypbuMyIbPAR6lj1DtplwODYAy36v6Luwyb3tNVWHAJmnqIO05ZNKblHyy9JkecPZIEEWKVOx7Hnm7dSV-jQsz0w79bBEXUJvaMeNk5O/s320/ba2.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5169031630345974194" border="0" /></a>Later, walking through its enchanting neighbourhoods, I encountered more than just the odd backpacker trying to figure their way around like me, map firmly in hand. I already felt comfortable. I began my exploring with the Plaza de Mayo (pronounced ‘<i style="">masho</i>’, for those unfamiliar with the Spanish language), the seat of the country’s revolution against <st1:place st="on"><st1:country-region st="on">Spain</st1:country-region></st1:place> in May 1810, as well as mass demonstrations organized by Eva Peron and the trade union movement in 1945 that sought to bring Juan Domingo Peron to power. The Plaza also witnessed riots as recently as 2001 when <st1:country-region st="on"><st1:place st="on">Argentina</st1:place></st1:country-region> was crippled by its now infamous economic crisis. Uniformed policemen permanently patrol the Casa Rosada (literally, ‘Pink House’), home of the executive branch of the federal government and the most impressive building in the vicinity - though to be fair, the headquarters of the National Bank, the May Pyramid and the Metropolitan Cathedral of Buenos Aires, all a stone’s throw away, are also worth your time. The plaza is the culmination of Avenue de Mayo, whose tree-lined pavements shade numerous Art Nouveau buildings that led, in 1997, to the avenue’s declaration as a national historic site. One of these buildings is Café Tortoni, a charming coffee house and a <st1:place st="on"><st1:city st="on">Buenos Aires</st1:city></st1:place> landmark – queues to enter are a common sight at all hours of the day, and, conversely, spending a few leisurely hours inside is a must-do activity for all visitors<span style=""> </span>- one that I made sure I didn’t miss myself! </p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p>Ambling along Avenue 9 de Julio, named so after <st1:country-region st="on"><st1:place st="on">Argentina</st1:place></st1:country-region>’s Independence Day, I tried to<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh0LtqLxsjLL0PPp8eIoAvSslGllS5pCjOfNYirSJSoylccXy5X0ddr0Q0z8YgQNLlhKfCYrgaqRKi7JHIjFGMiMOLokIoSn0XLnV-Q6GvqPEhOnUhhuXKnVkTYtX03P_cOKxu2/s1600-h/ba3.JPG"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh0LtqLxsjLL0PPp8eIoAvSslGllS5pCjOfNYirSJSoylccXy5X0ddr0Q0z8YgQNLlhKfCYrgaqRKi7JHIjFGMiMOLokIoSn0XLnV-Q6GvqPEhOnUhhuXKnVkTYtX03P_cOKxu2/s320/ba3.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5169031845094339010" border="0" /></a> recall any other avenue I’d seen that was as wide. The best I could dredge up from memory was <st1:city st="on">Paris</st1:city>’ <st1:place st="on">Champs Elysees</st1:place>, but even that was not as wide as the Avenue of the 9<sup>th</sup> of July. Maybe there is some truth, after all, to its claims of being the biggest avenue in the world. I passed by the Obelisk, a huge monument in the middle of the avenue built in 1936 to commemorate the 400<sup>th</sup> anniversary of the city, and very reminiscent of the other, probably more famous Obelisk at the Place de la Concorde in Paris. </p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgAziJrWqRKyJRYKQFgCOvGfdmtWZoZKWXx5Xh4-P5oRN2TSUiRKCKyzfTK5nIK128cY3WyzavqqWXNJ_I0SBmPxegOQg16OvDazb7FnVv68yQLZ203ZA9_ss_nOZsPbz6i3OwX/s1600-h/ba4.JPG"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgAziJrWqRKyJRYKQFgCOvGfdmtWZoZKWXx5Xh4-P5oRN2TSUiRKCKyzfTK5nIK128cY3WyzavqqWXNJ_I0SBmPxegOQg16OvDazb7FnVv68yQLZ203ZA9_ss_nOZsPbz6i3OwX/s320/ba4.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5169032180101788114" border="0" /></a>Disappointment was probably writ large on my face, however, when halfway along the seemingly never-ending avenue I walked up to the steps of the Teatro Colon, one of the world’s largest opera houses, only to be told that it had been closed for renovation since 2006, and was slated to take a while more to complete. Well, you can’t have EVERYTHING, I suppose! I was enjoying <st1:city st="on"><st1:place st="on">Buenos Aires</st1:place></st1:city> so much at this point that I shrugged it off, disappointed as I was, and continued my urban adventure. This took me to Rivadavia and the Plaza de los dos Congresos, where I sat for a while in the park and admired the imposing National Congress building and the many statues of famous Argentinian citizens that dotted the plaza. </p> <p class="MsoNormal"><st1:city st="on"><st1:place st="on">Buenos Aires</st1:place></st1:city> is reputed to be one of the best cities in the world to party, and for a reason. The earliest people start going out, even for dinner, is around 10 PM – we left a restaurant at 12 midnight and it was more packed than it was when we entered a couple of hours prior to that. Relaxed and easygoing seemed to be the keywords – you are expected to take your time sipping your wine before placing your order for dinner, and then enjoy a cheerful conversation with your friends (if you can hear them over the din!) before you finally see your food. And the food – ah – it would be unfair not to recommend the popular <i style="">Asado</i>, basically cuts of meat cooked over a grill or <i style="">parrilla</i> (pronounced ‘parisha’), that is the traditional dish of the country. Puerto Madero, a locality that used to be a storage area along the docks but is now a modern hotspot with excellent restaurants and cafes along its marina, is one of the best places to catch a bite to eat. I didn’t get to go to a club, but heard that they stay open till early in the morning, and drinks (and everything else in <st1:city st="on"><st1:place st="on">Buenos Aires</st1:place></st1:city>, for that matter!) are extremely reasonable because of the peso’s exchange rate – a few years ago it was 1:1 to the dollar but it is now 3.15. </p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p>A trip to <st1:city st="on">Buenos Aires</st1:city> would be incomplete without a visit to Recoleta, an area that is home to the <st1:placename st="on">Recoleta</st1:placename> <st1:placetype st="on">Cemetery</st1:placetype>, where the most famous personalities of <st1:country-region st="on"><st1:place st="on">Argentina</st1:place></st1:country-region> (including Eva Peron) have their final resting place, and the Basilica Nuestra Senora del Pilar, a charming whitewashed <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg3Jgmyh_ajp-8aGrOUULD5bW2Pmuqwlvr9gBJ_TzPcMimzSYwEPeAHYy9SNojJyS6V-1WKhbBWHxWpcBtRiZNPtub4B_jQTIejI_JjS1etULjZM8MkrzygMcYKTnB0Ma6rTQnG/s1600-h/ba6.JPG"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg3Jgmyh_ajp-8aGrOUULD5bW2Pmuqwlvr9gBJ_TzPcMimzSYwEPeAHYy9SNojJyS6V-1WKhbBWHxWpcBtRiZNPtub4B_jQTIejI_JjS1etULjZM8MkrzygMcYKTnB0Ma6rTQnG/s400/ba6.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5169032549468975586" border="0" /></a>church that seemed to almost gleam in the heat of the sun. I also walked cross-town to La Boca, the<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj4zXGbN0ozESOk4VLYbgW0z7MlsW4gKjV-DGVs_qYcH9cEK58UFeXwsDmOXcD5vl8Gu1xuUi-wN7YzkR-3fdiWuTYIKggZ93gC1ilf1E4upuNOURHDi7jlsh-EXVOofm2_l7f7/s1600-h/ba7.JPG"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj4zXGbN0ozESOk4VLYbgW0z7MlsW4gKjV-DGVs_qYcH9cEK58UFeXwsDmOXcD5vl8Gu1xuUi-wN7YzkR-3fdiWuTYIKggZ93gC1ilf1E4upuNOURHDi7jlsh-EXVOofm2_l7f7/s400/ba7.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5169032854411653618" border="0" /></a> neighbourhood that houses the Boca Juniors stadium, well worth a visit for all football fans – this was Maradona’s home ground. The charming locality of San Telmo was enroute, where the weekend flea market is a lovely place to shop for gifts. </p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p>Remnants of the Argentinan economic crisis are still visible – some commercial areas of the city like Florida (many streets are named after other countries and some after American states) have shops that are technically open 24 hours, but a grill outside with a small window at the side are all that indicate any willingness to do business after 8 PM or so. Local friends also recommended that it is best not to walk about with jewellery – the only kind I saw on others was beaded stuff, so I adhered to that myself. </p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p>Nevertheless, </o:p>as I was boarding my flight back to <st1:state st="on"><st1:place st="on">New York</st1:place></st1:state>, I overheard a young man talking to his companion in the airport. He ended up staying more than his intended few days because, in his words, he ‘fell in love with <st1:city st="on"><st1:place st="on">Buenos Aires</st1:place></st1:city>’. With its cobbled streets, historical aura and vibrant nightlife, it is easy to see why. </p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9332356.post-4055763989033849802008-02-08T11:37:00.000-05:002008-02-08T11:47:07.171-05:00The Tornado<p class="MsoNormal">Gigi giggled uncontrollably at Mummy’s funny faces. She was a happy little child. Her curls evoked memories of those perfectly proportioned, porcelain-skinned dolls with cascading blonde hair. Except that Gigi’s curls were black as the night. Anna fed her precious little daughter, burped her and put her to bed. </p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p>Gigi was the answer to Anna’s prayers. She remembered clearly the day she was brought home. </p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p>The wind shrieked like a temperamental old aunt as the leaves tore themselves away from their floundering canopies. Doors were blasted open as though with the unwavering hand of a cattle gun. Some roofs sailed into the sky like Aladdin’s magic carpet, only it seemed as if the carpets were in a tearing hurry to travel through time. The streets were emptied of their residents in the blink of an eye: now you see them, now you don’t. Tornadoes leave most places looking like ghost towns, didn’t you know? And this one was just getting started. </p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p>The house seemed eerily silent when Anna descended into the basement to escape the fury of Nature. She thought she was alone in the house till she noticed the crib in a corner, and then, as she approached it tentatively, Gigi. The helpless little infant had been wailing in her crib for hours, inaudible to anyone in the din of the tempest. The weather seemed to have zapped everyone who cared for her into thin air, temporarily anyway. Her loneliness was palpable.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p>Anna took one look at her face and fell in love. </p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p>A few days later, as she delicately sipped her coffee in a well-appointed room some five hundred miles away, she read in the newspaper: ‘Industrialist and wife mourn the loss of their newborn daughter in last week's tornado. Her body was never found.’</p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9332356.post-21902306824510447652008-02-07T01:22:00.000-05:002008-02-07T01:24:26.822-05:00Flies by night<p class="MsoNormal">Appu idly watched the flies knocking against each other in the midday sun. They seemed so stupid, he thought to himself. All they were fighting over was a watery ring on the rickety steel table, a remnant of the unappetizing tea he’d just had at the roadside tea vendor’s. He smiled sardonically. Bloody single-winged insects. Ants were much better. Hardworking little things. What did that encyclopaedia call them? <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eusocial">Eusocial</a>. He went home to his dark lair, devoid of any sunshine (he preferred it that way) and gave his little friends a warm welcome. Later, as he ate his dinner, rice with a greenish paste, he read out aloud: ‘Charles Thomas Bingham notes that in parts of <st1:country-region st="on">India</st1:country-region>, and throughout <st1:country-region st="on">Burma</st1:country-region> and <st1:country-region st="on"><st1:place st="on">Siam</st1:place></st1:country-region>, a paste of the green weaver ant is served as a condiment with curry.’</p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9332356.post-246265707992374252008-02-03T07:23:00.000-05:002008-02-03T07:30:21.951-05:00Akshara Foundation and meA few years ago, I worked with a very talented group of people on this video for the Akshara Foundation, a nonprofit in Bangalore. Since I am in consolidating mode, I thought I'd pop it in my blog as well and preserve it for posterity, so to speak. <br /><br /><object width="425" height="350"> <param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/PiR5NxAWIyA"> </param> <embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/PiR5NxAWIyA" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="425" height="350"></embed> </object>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9332356.post-51220762254457160982008-01-28T04:23:00.000-05:002008-02-07T01:32:32.525-05:00‘The auto slowed down on an isolated stretch. My heartbeat quickened’<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjb3Dd7X0klnD76enUTUXc294U4E3P7jY-z5UNwLKyJN4rU-unO4gTDvhzMJLCNOgrJqzT1WWJx-1aYoQQvUR3JQJ3P1ZBXVbivVC9wN0Z1ZTBJ7SukvwqAIkb2x2NqpIJscE2z/s1600-h/ph.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjb3Dd7X0klnD76enUTUXc294U4E3P7jY-z5UNwLKyJN4rU-unO4gTDvhzMJLCNOgrJqzT1WWJx-1aYoQQvUR3JQJ3P1ZBXVbivVC9wN0Z1ZTBJ7SukvwqAIkb2x2NqpIJscE2z/s400/ph.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5160457635653220930" border="0" /></a>It was January 2005, a cold winter’s night. <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p>As the train sped along its tracks from Dehradun to <st1:city st="on"><st1:place st="on">New Delhi</st1:place></st1:city>, I settled myself a bit more comfortably in my seat and delved deeper into the book I was reading. The gentleman sitting next to me was a nice enough person, a salesman on his way back to <st1:place st="on"><st1:city st="on">Delhi</st1:city></st1:place> after at trip to Dehradun on work, just like me. As dinner was served, we struck up a conversation. Having travelled around the country alone quite a bit and having seen my share of strange people, I was not particularly receptive in the beginning, but I soon felt he was not exactly a stalker and relaxed. The older gentleman on my right (I was sandwiched in the middle, the bane of train and aeroplane travelers alike!) soon joined in our conversation – he was going to see his daughter in the city. When he heard that I was travelling alone and planned to take an auto-rickshaw home when we reached <st1:city st="on"><st1:place st="on">Delhi</st1:place></st1:city>, he insisted that I take a prepaid auto and not hail one from outside the station, for my safety. As the train pulled into New Delhi station a couple of hours later, the salesman and I headed off towards the pre-paid auto-rickshaw stand, from where we could catch our separate autos home. The older gentleman had his daughter waiting for him. I thanked my travel companions for their assistance and concern and soon found myself in a prepaid auto headed towards Defence Colony, where I lived alone in an isolated little room on top of a house, my ‘living quarters’ (as they say in India) that I rented from a very nice Punjabi family. </p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p>The time was 11.30 PM. In my backpack, I had a sachet of <i style="">desi</i> chilli powder. A laughable aid to any possible danger, I agree, but all I wanted then was some sort of security. When I was leaving for Dehradun, I’d thrown in the chilli powder at the last minute, sort of as an afterthought. I’d heard far too many stories about untoward incidents being perpetrated upon women in the capital, and I didn’t intend to become just another statistic. I suppose I should have carried pepper spray, but somewhere we all think we are invincible, don’t we? We all think, when we read the newspapers, that ‘that kind of thing’ can never happen to us. </p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p>Five minutes later, on an isolated stretch of the road heading towards India Gate, the auto started slowing down. Thudthudthudthudthudthud. My heart started beating at double its normal rate, and my hand slid into my backpack. The rickshaw driver took out a <i style="">beedi</i>, lit it, and continued the journey. I could almost hear my heart rate slow down: thud-thud-thud-thud-thud. All I wanted was to get back to my room.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p>I did get home safely that night, but that was not the only time I felt unsafe in <st1:city st="on"><st1:place st="on">Delhi</st1:place></st1:city>. A year later when I was returning alone at 9.30 PM from the airport to my paying-guest accommodation in Bangalore, I felt a similar (though less intense) feeling of fear when the auto had to take a detour along a less crowded road, thanks to some ongoing repairs. Time obviously makes you braver, as does experience. This time, there was nothing handy in my backpack. This time also however, thankfully, nothing happened.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p>I have lived, prior to and since then, in <st1:city st="on">London</st1:city>, <st1:city st="on">Brussels</st1:city> and <st1:state st="on"><st1:place st="on">New York</st1:place></st1:state>. I have been to places from where I’ve returned alone at night in all of these cities. In none of them have I felt as vulnerable as I did in <st1:country-region st="on"><st1:place st="on">India</st1:place></st1:country-region>. I have often asked myself what it is that makes it so difficult to be a single woman in urban, modernized India – I have even asked friends who’ve been in similar situations. </p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p>They have formed their own support systems, living as they do away from their families – <span style=""> </span>when one of them has to return late, they make sure that she calls one of the others and gives them the auto’s registration number, and preferably talks to someone through the journey, if it is not too long. The recourse to public transport, like the tube in <st1:city st="on">London</st1:city> or the subway in <st1:state st="on">New York</st1:state>, which is what I have used in the past (and still do today, in <st1:state st="on">New York</st1:state>) is not there in <st1:country-region st="on"><st1:place st="on">India</st1:place></st1:country-region> at all. That is why in <st1:country-region st="on"><st1:place st="on">India</st1:place></st1:country-region>, young working women are left to the mercy of auto-rickshaw drivers, many of whom refuse to take us where we want to go, or ask for sky-high fares. Let’s face it: if we could pay those ridiculous amounts, we wouldn’t be forced to take an auto, would we – we’d buy our own cars. </p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p>I didn’t tell my parents about the incident in <st1:city st="on"><st1:place st="on">Delhi</st1:place></st1:city> that day – I didn’t want to worry them. Today, I worry about my younger sister as she travels around <st1:country-region st="on"><st1:place st="on">India</st1:place></st1:country-region>. I want to ensure that <i style="">she</i> is always safe. The truth is, I can’t. I can only hope that she exercises her common sense. Just like my parents probably hoped I would.<span style=""><br /></span></p><span style="font-style: italic;font-size:85%;" >Published in <a href="http://tehelka.com/story_main37.asp?filename=hub020208personalhistories.asp">Tehelka Magazine</a>, Vol. 5, Issue 4, dated Feb.2, 2008</span><br /><span style=";font-family:Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;font-size:85%;" ></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9332356.post-90415300950628318862007-12-21T09:31:00.000-05:002007-12-21T09:47:36.370-05:00Of desire and regretThe first time I read this particular poem by Russian poet Vera Pavlova in the New York subway, it stayed in my mind because it reminded me of a little poster that used to be in my grandmother's house in Madras when I was growing up, stuck behind a glass cabinet, that went along the lines of:<br /><br />The more you study, the more you learn<br />The more you learn, the more you forget<br />The more you forget, the less you learn<br />So why study?<br /><br />Growing up, I used to think it was quite brilliant and very amusing, and my grandfather used to point to it and laugh whenever I said I had so much to study. I just found out (like right now, thanks to this glorious invention called the internet), that the person who wrote that was someone called <a href="http://theaccidentalmarketer.blogspot.com/">Don Akchin</a>. (Thanks, Don!)<br /><br />And so, the first time I saw the lines below in the subway, I thought they were interesting because of the connect. But of course there is much more to it, in the philosophical sense - it is rather beautiful, I think. The New Yorker even <a href="http://www.newyorker.com/fiction/poetry/2007/07/30/070730po_poem_pavlova">published a set of four poems</a>, of which this is one, by Pavlova earlier this year.<br /><br />If there is something to desire,<br />there will be something to regret.<br />If there is something to regret,<br />there will be something to recall.<br />If there is something to recall,<br />there was nothing to regret.<br />If there was nothing to regret,<br />there was nothing to desire.<br /><br />- Vera Pavlova (b. 1963), translated from the Russian by Steven SeymourUnknownnoreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9332356.post-46631511425195197692007-12-11T10:05:00.000-05:002007-12-11T10:08:21.420-05:00The Birthday Gift<p class="MsoNormal">She sat thinking intently…<br />Where could she hide it?<br />Under the bed?<br />Or maybe in the kitchen cupboard –<br />He’d never wander there - did he ever?!!</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p>It was special after all,<br />His birthday.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p>As he walked in the door rosy-cheeked from the cold,<br />She smiled at him happily, like a new bride.<br />‘Happy Birthday, darling’, she said – sang, almost.<br />She waited for him to wash his face (tap on - splash splash splash – tap off)<br />And as he turned around to face her,<br />She hugged him lovingly,<br />Her unwavering hand wrapped tightly around his moulded back.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p>Then she stood back and watched<br />As he looked at the darkening river flowing down his stomach.</p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9332356.post-75015580583575572752007-12-10T17:46:00.000-05:002007-12-10T18:01:15.138-05:00Women are BAR none!!!Good news for people in Delhi (specifically men!) - the <a href="http://www.mid-day.com/news/delhi/article?_EXT_5_articleId=803191&_EXT_5_groupId=14">Supreme Court has upheld the employment of women as bartenders in the Capital</a>. Now that I come to think of it, I have never seen any female bartenders in India so far. Nice change in the offing.<br /><br />Anything you can do, we can do better........<br /><br />Or so say Claire Danes and Patrick Wilson in this Gap ad which is very hummable!!!:<br /><br /><object height="355" width="425"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/pmKacuH_xOU&rel=1"><param name="wmode" value="transparent"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/pmKacuH_xOU&rel=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" wmode="transparent" height="355" width="425"></embed></object>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9332356.post-91888580717412906632007-12-04T08:10:00.001-05:002007-12-04T08:21:20.295-05:00The age conundrumWhen you begin thinking of people born after 1984 as 'those kids' and people born between 1970-1980 as closer to your age, that's when you know you're on the wrong side of 25. Ugh!!!!<br /><br />Must think more along the lines of 'Age is a question of mind over matter. If you don't mind, it doesn't matter.'<br /><br />Now if only it was easy as the snap of a finger to just believe that!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0